Note: The following keywords apply both to Woman (a) and to Woman (b). If you want to see Woman (b) you can do that >> here.
Nouns / phrases:
A woman or girl - see paragraph As a person. Possibly also: "femaleness" or "femininity"; the influence female gender roles and stereotypes have on the querent. Situations or places were there's usually a majority of women (e.g. women's association; midwifery; yoga class etc.).
To do something with a female person. Possibly: activities the querent considers "feminine".
Of the female gender. Possibly: feminine (whatever that means to the querent). Concerning a female person.
As a person: Representative of the querent if the querent is female. If the querent is male: a) always his spouse, steady girlfriend, or, if he is single, his love interest. b) The female person most relevant to the question asked - e.g. an affair, friend, work colleague; a female relative.
If the Woman represents the querent: "This is about you!" If the Woman represents someone the querent knows: "This female person is very relevant to your concern!". Possibly: "Have a close look at how your ideas about what women are (or should be) like influence your situation!"
Time factor *) : When (or if) it happens is in the hands of the Woman.